Last night was just a hot mess. 

All shit went down and I found out my friend was a victim of domestic abuse (by a guy I used to be close to… which makes my fucking skin crawl) and then another friend got sexually objectified then I got sexually objectified and one of my friend’s got fucked over which resulted in tears collecting on my shoulder. Another friend also got objectified for being gay. 

It was just a night of objectification and surprise, surprise - it was all men. Older men. By about 10 years, to be exact. It was fucking disgusting and I came home feeling sick. At one point I had to take refuge in Mike’s bedroom with another Faye while he was showering.

Only Mike and Tony were the respectable ones out of everyone. It was horrific. 

And some of my friends wonder why I regard myself as a feminist. Um.